Is there anything wrong with me because I'm still single?

2. Unrealistic Standards.

We are the most narcissist generation, and it is affecting our capability to bond with others, especially in relationships. As I said, most efforts are silent efforts. We need to put on glasses that magnify the effort others are making. In therapy, it is very difficult to make someone believe that they are wrong. Many psychological factors come into play, like a fragile ego, unconscious conflict, defense mechanisms, etc.

Now, singlism in many countries is seen as a choice rather than an outcome of low self-esteem and poor social skills. It is seen that when society becomes comfortable with some phenomenon, people start adapting it more openly.

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Some of the commonly seen reasons are skill deficit, can't match the standard of girls, self-esteem issue, availability of sex, porn consumption, fear of rejection, change in priorities, and being single by choice.

Self-evaluation is a journey of introspection, a mirror to identity, to correctly evaluate your worth in society. When we are lazy, resentful, self-obsessed, and disloyal, how can we expect our partner to be an ideal lover? When we don't even know how to receive and reciprocate love.

4. Radical Feminism.

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There are many signs that indicate a lack of effort and attention, such as not spending time together, not arranging dates, ignoring, or not wiling to compromise on planes just to help you.

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Humans marry and produce heirs for the purpose of survival, and the selection of men and women is also based on these criteria. Galant men are preferred over weak ones, and fecund women are preferred over infertile.

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

Globalization and industrialization have changed the direction of the human race; now, nations do not worry about their existence but increase the quality of life.

The reason why men are choosing to be single is difficult to evaluate, as this behavior was recently noticed and research is being done, but we still don't have concrete evidence regarding the specific hypothesis.

We never learn self-evaluation, so as a result, self-criticism and self-righteousness rise in our personalities.

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One piece of advice worth mentioning is that your efforts must align with your role. Women aren't made to earn money for their whole family, paying for vacations. Similarly, men should be least likely to put effort into home decoration, etc.

Men also handled loneliness negatively; the cases of depression and anxiety are much higher in single men as compared to women.

The radical feminism and toxic muscularity have put both genders on a pedestal, telling them they deserve the world while you are nothing is gibberish.

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Not only men but women are also choosing not to have any partners. Recently, Trent skyrocketed on TikTok, where people are posting their confessions that they are single, they want to date, but they don't have any option, and mostly women are in their thirties. Now I will give you the reason why both sides are infuriated and frustrated with each other.

During an interview in the 2000s, Cher narrated,

Ask your gurus why they are single and why every person rejected them on date.Why do opposite genders dislike them, and why don't they have peaceful relationships?

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In changing the goal of mankind, our standard of choice has drastically changed. The world has gone through an intellectual revolution, and people demand rationality and reasoning behind every matter. Even though it is about choosing the right partner, and yes, logical reasoning should be considered while choosing a partner, we will discuss how that has affected the bonding between couples.

My mom said to me,You know, sweet heart, one day you should settle down and marry a rich man.I said,Mom, I am a rich man."

The ratio of being single is higher among men than in women worldwide, and it is shocking because men are polygynous; their ancestors used to have more than one female partner, but why this paradigm shift?

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Relationships and companionships are necessities for humans. In the story of human origin, when Adam and Eve were made, the very first humans were made as a couple. The concept of companionship was very different for our ancestors, where the primary function of human life was survival and producing progeny. Thus, mankind has gone through various disasters in history, from the Ice Age to the Metroid and volcano eruptions. These had destroyed the ancient civilization, and the survival of the fittest was worshipped.

Changing in the traditional roles of male and female leads to a change in perspective towards marriage and long-term relationships, as society is becoming more accepting of the idea of singularity, and now it is no longer seen as a failure; people are opting for it deliberately.

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If men and women think they are blessed or superior naturally, the universe deserves to treat them with all love just because who they are is a delusion. If you think you are charming, pretty, and skilled, remember that there will always be more pretty, charming, and skilled people than you.

This one is common: we humans psychologically overestimate our capabilities, and often narcissistic behavior causes us to have unmet delusional standards. If you ask someone what the criteria of their ideal partner are, they will list down so many things, and when you ask what you will bring to the table, they will give the most average answers, such as loyalty, time, and hotness! Which is not an extraordinary standard.

I call this inner work: meeting your dark side and channeling that energy into positive qualities. It does take time and effort to become a high-value person, but when you have high-energy people around you, you can sense it and respond according to it. That's how the law of attraction works.

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Women have also changed their priorities; the role of women portrayed in movies has shaped their thinking. Most women focus on themselves and earn enough money to support themselves. They do not depend on the man for their bread and butter. The major attraction for women in men was money; now that they are hustling themselves and earning equal to men, they prefer to be single and entangled in a relationship.

Your partners, if you are in a relationship, deserve the effort because everyone makes a silent effort, and it is shallow to mention your efforts every time.

We grow up listening to stories where men stand all day in the heat just to catch a glimpse of their ladylove. Even replying on time is a genuine effort.

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3. Change in priorities.

1- Not Putting Enough Efforts.

Social media has played a crucial role in making people delusive about relationships; most of the content is fake and made to gain views. Believing in such an influencer is an act of dull mind. Set your standards based on your self-evaluation, and then you will get out of your own unearthly heaven.

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